When a match is still tied after extra time, IFAB Law 10.3 provides the solution: the penalty shootout. This dramatic finale ensures every game produces a winner, but it also follows a very specific process to keep things fair.
Only players who are on the field at the end of extra time may take part. If one team has fewer players because of red cards or injuries, the other team must reduce to equate so both sides have the same number of eligible kickers. This way, no team gains an advantage in the order of shooters.
The procedure begins with the referee selecting the goal and a coin toss deciding which team shoots first. Each side alternates shots from the penalty mark, taking five kicks each. If the score is still level, the contest continues into sudden death, where teams trade one kick at a time until a winner emerges.
Every kick is also bound by Law 14 (the penalty kick). The ball must be placed on the penalty mark, the goalkeeper must stay on the goal line until the kick is taken, and all other players must remain outside the penalty area until the ball is struck. Any infringements are handled by the referee, which may result in retakes or cautions.
Advancing from youth soccer refereeing into more competitive, higher-level matches is a clear and achievable pathway that requires intentional development, commitment, and guidance. Whether a referee hopes to work competitive travel leagues, regional tournaments, college matches, or even professional pathways, the steps to advancement are similar. Here are the key strategies every youth referee should know.
- Connect Early With Your State Referee Committee
Every referee in the United States is governed by their State Referee Committee (SRC), and this group is your primary resource for growth. They oversee assessments, upgrades, training opportunities, and advancement pathways.
What to do:
- Visit your state referee association website and sign up for referee development emails.
- Ask about upgrade requirements for each badge level.
- Attend state-run training sessions, laws-of-the-game reviews, or fitness tests.
- Introduce yourself to the State Director of Instruction or State Director of Assessment.
- Find a Mentor Who Has Walked the Path
The fastest way to grow as a referee is to learn directly from someone more experienced. A mentor can help refine mechanics, decision-making, positioning, game management, and professional expectations.
How to find a mentor:
- Ask your assignor or local referee association for recommendations.
- Reach out to experienced referees you’ve worked with.
- Join local referee groups online.
- Attend Tournaments With Referee Coaches and Assessors
Large tournaments such as state cups, regional events, and competitive travel showcases offer real-time feedback, exposure to faster matches, and opportunities to work with higher-ranked referees.
- Participate in Webinars, Clinics, and Continuing Education
Regular education ensures referees stay up to date with new interpretations, video examples, and guidance. Options include US Soccer Learning Center webinars, state association clinics, game‑management workshops, and referee‑specific educational channels.
- Be Proactive in Asking for Feedback
After matches, ask your referee team for constructive criticism. Referees who actively seek feedback improve quicker than those who don’t.
- Say Yes to Challenging Assignments
Taking on higher‑intensity games helps referees adapt to faster play, improve foul recognition, and learn to manage high‑pressure situations.
- Prioritize Professionalism and Reliability
Higher‑level assignors look for referees who are punctual, fit, professional, respectful, and dependable.
- Work on Physical Fitness and Mechanics
Higher‑level matches demand stronger fitness and cleaner mechanics. Regular conditioning, sprint work, and studying professional referees can help.
- Consider Joining a Development Program
Many states offer Emerging Talent or Advanced Development programs that provide coaching, structured development, and access to high‑level assignments.
- Build a Network With Other Motivated Referees
Networking helps referees stay informed about tournaments, clinics, assessments, and opportunities.
Conclusion
Advancing as a youth soccer referee takes time and visibility. By connecting with state leadership, seeking mentorship, attending tournaments, continuing education, showing professionalism, and building a strong network, any youth referee can move into higher‑level matches and expand their opportunities.
